navigating college as a disabled student

As a disabled college freshman in Longwood University, there are some things that I have had to deal with that other students do not. First of all, after I got into school, my mother had to contact the office of disabilities to set up my disability accommodations. These accommodations include me being able to go into a separate room when I have to take tests. This helps me concentrate on my testing and avoid distraction. Another thing mom had to do was to get me an aid because I need assistance during my day. So, she contacted CareMed, a nursing agency to hire an aid for me. My first two aids were not all that great, the first one quit because she had car trouble and wasn’t able to come . The second lady was able to stay a few weeks but she ultimately ended up quitting because she was uncomfortable with different people. My third and current aid is an African American male, he is a very good helper and he has lasted since October. 

Some other issues with being a disabled college student would include having to learn how to balance college with my personal life. I have never really had to work during grade school, but when I got into college is very different because you aren’t told when to do your work. There is also a difference in the amount of work that must be done. For many of my classes I must do readings beforehand, in grade school I had never had to do many readings outside of class. I also have to set reminders on my phone to help me remember things (ie going to class) because I am forgetful. I also have to get paperwork filled out in advance to take tests in a private room.

Finally, in college it is different in terms of building relationships. I sometimes have trouble talking to people and socializing. In college I have tried talking to as many people as possible to start friendships. I have also tried to find a girlfriend because I have never had one, but unfortunately I have been unable to find anyone (I will write about this latter). I think that part of my problem with making friends is my speaking issues, because of which some people think I am not intelligent.

In short, being a disabled college student poses unique challenges to me. I have to prepare myself for classes and I have to look ahead and  keep all my ducks in a row.